The year begun and found me standing in the midst of all the newness and freshness around me. Everyone was excited, furiously scribbling newness on planners and journals, penning down their goals , dreams, plans and whatever else they could jot. As I caught myself surrounded by all the activity, one of my friend’s turned to me, with all the enthusiasm she could muster and asked a series of questions, which only felt like I was the target of a firing squad! “what is the one thing that you want to achieve this year?”,” Where do you want to go?”, “what do you want to do?!” and for a moment, I was blank! I stared deep into my friend’s eyes, (somehow hoping that if I stared long enough, the answers I sought would be found in her eyes ) and drew a blank.
I went back home, dejected. sad. and somewhat disappointed. Everyone I knew had something going on with them, something they were looking forward to, they were alive and seemed to have an exuberance I had since lost! I read all the blogs that had “new beginnings” “new dawn” “how to get your groove back” and sadly nothing was working. No matter how hard I tried, I was unable to “Lean In”
and then, that is when I decided to do, what I do best! Keep calm and wait for it … READ A BOOK! I know, not the most inspiring thought, however, this has always worked for me. In times of great anxiety and stress, or when I feel lost and adrift from the real world, I always grab a book, coffee pot full and get lost in a book, another world, where I can relate, and they can relate with me. And so I read. it took 2 books, ( I will be reviewing them later) to get me out of my funk and by the time I was done with the 2nd book I felt like I could face the world. 1. because I was somewhat on a book high, and 2. It was 5 days into the new year, and all the hullabaloo about goals and plans and what not for the year had somehow died down, and I could relate with people without the pressure of sharing what I look forward to, into the new year. (or so I thought)
So if you are wondering, do I finally have it all figured out? Do I have any goals or plans for the new year? My answer nope! I have none. I just know two things, 1. Books are my stress buster, so I need to start a reading challenge to keep my juices going. and 2. I already have 2 books up for review. how about that? The rest? well the rest, hopefully I will discover in a book.
Your turn
What is your go to, when you feel like the world around you is spinning out of your control? Share in the comments below. We would love to hear them!
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When my world is spinning, a library usually helps me out. I love to read. Or Target, because I love to shop.
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omg I love the library too. I recently discovered shopping and I was impressed on how therapeutic it is. Thanks for stopping by.
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great post!!!! I must admit that i don’t read as much as i used to or need to. That’s why i’m so excited to participate in the book challenge. I love a good book, and yes, sometimes it helps to go into another world if even for a few hours. It can bring you clarity! 🙂
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I know right! I especially find that when I get lost in a good book with a good plot, then I end up feeling energized to tackle on life! Hope you do start the reading challenge. Thanks for stopping by. xo
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I like to go for a walk to get my thoughts straight. I also clean when things are out of control
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Nice! I used to clean too, then I got lazy, maybe I should go back to it this year! Thanks for stopping by! I will also try walking it out.
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Well since you asked… when I feel like that I turn to my favorite book, my Bible. It calms and heals the hurt in a way that nothing else can 🙂
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I love it. Being a believer myself, I know how important the bible is to me to. Thanks for the reminder that there is always a place to turn to, and thanks for stopping by. xo
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Honestly, my biggest stress-buster is relaxing on the couch with my dogs. They bring me so much warmth, comfort, joy and LOVE!
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Awww so cute! I watched “The secret life of pets” last year, and I begun to appreciate pets. Currently I don’t own any 😦
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Everyone has a plan, some got this new year’s resolution but nobody knows our destiny and our future might be. A plan is just a wish that if you work hard for it, He might give it to you as well. When I felt that everything around me doesn’t fit in, I just take a sit at the corner of my room and PRAY.
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That is so true! I guess deep down why I was reluctant to come up with any plans was because I know I am not in control. Thank you for this. I will take some time to sit at the corner of my room too. Thanks for stopping by. xo
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Reading has always been and will forever be my go to whenever I feel out of control, lost or alone. Well, let’s be honest, it’s my go to for any reason!
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hahaha love it! I am glad we found each other! Thanks for stopping by. xo
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I only had one goal, lose weight. But that’s not much and except that I have nothing, that wouldn’t be life. I want to do more but I’m blank as well…later I decided to do the same as you did. Calm down. It will come somehow…
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Let me know when it comes, we celebrate together yes? Loosing weight is an important goal, go you!!! Thanks for stopping by. xo
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When my world is spinning away from me and I feel lonely, I like to draw. I love reading, but if I’m stressed I can’t focus on it.
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Drawing is so cool. i have no gift for it whatsoever. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by. xo
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I love to take a bath when I’m feeling that way. Sometimes I bring a book. Book + bath is a very relaxing combo.
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That sounds so amazing, i have to try it out. I have only seen it in movies 🙂 I will let you know how the experience goes. Thanks for stopping by. xo
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Hi, I just nominated you for the Mystery Blogger Award! (http://whatmakesagoodbook.blogspot.com)
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Thank you! Game on!!!
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Reading is definitely on my list to do more of this year. There is just something that a good book can do when I am in a bad mood.
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I agree! So what are you reading (or planning to read) this month?
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I used to read a lot when I was younger. I guess life got a hold of me and I havent read as much as I used to want.
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Life does that to the very best of us huh? I usually slid a chapter in my life everyday of reading, that way I keep abreast with my beloved passion! xo
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I have a few things that I go to when I am feeling like that but off the top of my head, I would say turn on some relaxing music and sip some tea or coffee.
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Relaxing music, I should try that. Thanks for stopping by. xo
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When my world is spinning like crazy, crocheting is my go to solution. I do read a book sometimes or listen to music. Thanks for sharing.
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Crocheting is on my “try new things list” this year. I hear it is very relaxing! I learnt that from Meredith on Greys Anatomy on her feeble attempt to be celibate. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by. xo
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i love reading. i always have. although since blogging its been hard for me to read. i really miss it.
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As a new blogger I understand the pressure around blogging! I have since discovered a way to slip a chapter of a book, every so often, to keep up with my habit! thanks for stopping by. xo
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I find that books divert my attention in a way where I get lost in another world so easily that even boiling pots at home are chiming or ringing for minutes, haha. I don’t really have any new goals this year, it’s just more of self-improvement.
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I feel you! you should see my laundry basket, untouched! My older self always says, hey why don’t you wash those, and me, my normal self goes like, hey I have a better idea, why don’t I read a book about clothes 🙂
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i love reading but don’t have as much time for it as i would like. i usually read when i’m going to bed and fall asleep to it.
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awww, I know that feeling. 🙂
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My go to is talking to my husband. He always helps me calm down when I’m feeling out of sorts!
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Missy
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awwww that is the sweetest thing I have heard all day! Keep doing that Missy. xo
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A hot shower helps. Sleep. Sometimes just going outside does the trick. oh…and coffee, a hot cup of coffee soothes my soul. 🙂
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I really need to try the going outside trick. It seems to be a favorite for most. Yaaasss Coffee solves all problems.
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I always read the Bible and it gives me the answer and make me feel OK. Other than that, shopping is the answer 🙂 I’m not a reader tho I’ve seen interesting books and I’d love to read one.
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Hey thanks for stopping by 🙂 I discovered shopping late last year, and I could not believe just how therapeutic shopping is
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I just play my favorite app, the Candy Crush! And after, I am back in track!
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Hahahaha you are my HERO! you definitely take the cake for sure! Thanks for stopping by. xo
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We are leaving Asia in a few months. I think I am going to get back into the workforce, so I am in the process of working on my resume and making a plan of action.
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plan of action, hmmm how does that look like? Hoping for the best for you, as you plan to get into the workforce. Thanks for stopping by. xo
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I love the honesty in this post! I struggle with goal setting sometimes myself, and I always find that reading inspires me. I’ll read something (be it blog, novel, magazine … ahem, Pinterest) and find myself thinking, “Cool! I wanna do THAT!” And voila – goals.
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Oh yeah, that is so cool. I need to get my hand on Pinterest, everyone talks about it 🙂 Thanks for your cool comment, and thanks for stopping by! xo
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